Proving Domestic Violence in a Divorce

 

Domestic violence is a serious matter that has an impact on families throughout the US every day. Domestic abuse can have an impact on certain aspects of your divorce, so it is critical to find a divorce lawyer who can help you gather and present all relevant evidence to prove domestic violence and help you get a Protection From Abuse (PFA) order if necessary. Unfortunately, abuse can escalate when one person ends a relationship, so it is crucial to have a plan and think about your safety and the well-being of your children.

How Domestic Violence Can Affect Divorce Cases

Domestic violence can be a factor in a divorce when the courts make determinations about matters such as:

- Property division

- Child custody

- Spousal support

- Alimony

- Other issues that may be unique to your circumstances

Regardless of whether you are the one being abused or you are being accused of domestic violence, it is important to document everything to prove your side of the story.

How to Prove Domestic Violence

Criminal Convictions and PFA Orders

Whether it is a criminal or civil matter, courts make decisions based on facts. If domestic violence is an issue in your divorce, you will have to provide adequate evidence to show that it took place. The most straightforward way to do this is to show evidence of a criminal conviction for domestic abuse. If your spouse was convicted of a domestic-related offense, the family court will typically consider it sufficient evidence that abuse occurred. If you or your children have been victims of domestic violence, filing for a protection from abuse order can help protect your safety and provide evidence as well.

Witness Testimony

It is important to report incidences of abuse to law enforcement every time they happen, even if they do not result in criminal charges or a conviction. Law enforcement officers can testify as witnesses in domestic violence and divorce cases, as can friends, family members, teachers, doctors, social workers, or anyone who heard or saw the abuse. Although it may be daunting, you can also testify. In addition to helping you settle other matters involved in your divorce, your attorney can help you prepare before you testify and act as your staunch advocate in court.

Proof of Injuries

If you went to the emergency room due to injuries caused by your abuser, medical records related to incidences of domestic violence can provide compelling evidence. Photos of your injuries can also be helpful in proving domestic violence in a divorce case.

Other Proof of Abuse

Another way to help prove domestic violence is to document everything. Keep a list of the dates, times, and details of each incident, what your spouse did and said, and any witnesses who may have observed the behavior. This can help prove a pattern of abuse and have a significant impact on issues like child custody. In addition, save any emails, text messages, voicemails, or social media posts/messages from your spouse. Having an experienced divorce attorney by your side can help you get through a contentious divorce, protect your interests, and hold your abuser accountable.

If you need assistance with divorce, issues surrounding domestic violence, child custody, or other family law matters, contact a Pennsylvania divorce lawyer today.

If you or someone you know needs help, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224.

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Questions to Ask When Looking for a Divorce Attorney

Finding a divorce attorney who is right for you can be daunting. Ending a marriage can be emotionally and financially draining as it is, so it is important to hire an attorney who has your best interests in mind.  Arming yourself with knowledge before you begin your search can help you feel more confident about your decisions and help you understand the divorce process. Asking some questions can also prepare you for what lies ahead and help you find a divorce lawyer who meets your needs and meshes with your communication style. 

Do you know that the Perna & Abracht legal team is always available to answer your divorce questions here, without any obligation?

Experience & Qualifications

There are a few questions to ask that can give you an idea of whether or not a lawyer is experienced in handling divorce cases, including:

• How long have you been practicing family law? 

• Is divorce your specialty?

• How many divorce cases have you handled? How many were settled out of court?

• Are you familiar with local family court judges, lawyers, and other officers of the court?

• Do you have experience handling cases that involve child support, alimony, business valuation, and significant assets? (This question will depend on your specific circumstances)

• Are you skilled in alternative dispute resolution such as mediation or collaborative divorce?

• How many of those cases were you able to settle out of court?

Strategy

• Do you think it is better to mediate and negotiate than go to trial?

• Will you ask my opinion before planning a strategy?

• What is your strategy for my case?

• Will I be able to negotiate directly with my spouse?

• How long do you think it will take to resolve my case?

• Based on the circumstances, what do you think the best possible outcome could be for my case? The worst?

Availability

• Will you or another attorney handle my case? If someone else is handling it, what is their experience?

• Can I meet others from the firm who will be involved in my case?

• Will you be readily available via phone, email, or text? 

• What is the best way to contact you if I need help with an urgent matter? What do you consider an emergency?

• Will I be kept informed of all developments in my case?

Legal and Tax Implications

• How are marital assets divided in my state? 

• Am I entitled to spousal support or alimony or will I have to pay?

• How do you ensure you are getting accurate financial information from my spouse?

• What are the tax implications of my financial decisions surrounding the divorce?

Custody & Child Support 

• How are child custody and support determined in my state?

• What are your recommendations for custody and child support based on my circumstances? 

• How can I increase my chances of gaining custody? 

• Will I have to pay child support or will I be entitled to child support? 

Fees & Costs

• Do you charge an hourly rate or a fixed fee?

• If hourly, what is your rate? 

• How much do you require for a retainer?

• What are the rates for the services of paralegals and other professionals in your office?

• Will I be charged for phone calls?

• Do you anticipate additional costs such as hiring a private investigator or other professionals? 

• What can I do to help keep costs down?

Find an Attorney Who Always Puts Your Interests First

Asking these questions can help you get a feel for an attorney’s style and whether they will be a good fit with your personality. Do not hesitate to ask any additional questions you may have as well. Talking with a skilled, compassionate Pennsylvania divorce lawyer can help put your mind at ease and make the process less stressful.

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Fathers: 3 Things You Should Know About Your Child Custody Rights

For many years, fathers who sought physical and legal custody of their child had an uphill battle, as courts favored the mother retaining custody. However, times have changed, and biological fathers are viewed as having the same parental rights as biological mothers.

Courts are compelled to make decisions in the best interest of the child. Generally, it is considered that joint custody between the biological parents is in the best interest of the child, but every child custody case is unique. There are three important areas that can affect your individual child custody case:

1.    How Paternity is Established

If the parents were married at the time the child was born, establishing paternity usually is straightforward. The court will assume the child is the product of the marriage, and the husband is the biological father. If the parents were not married at the time the child was born, you must prove that you are the biological father in order to gain rights to child custody.

The simplest solution is for the mother and you to both sign and file an acknowledgement of paternity with the court including the child’s birth certificate with you as the named father. The best divorce lawyers will tell you the simplest solution is not always possible.

If paternity is disputed, be prepared to undergo DNA testing to prove your biological paternity. If you are an unwed father who has not established biological paternity you will not have legal rights to child custody.

2.    Types of Custody

Overall, there are two types of child custody:

1.    Physical custody. This mainly has to do with where the child lives, and which parent cares for the child.

2.    Legal custody. This gives you the right to make important decisions on behalf of the child, such as medical, educational and/or religious decisions.

Today, in practice, there are several ways that child custody may be arranged:

•    Joint custody is when the child lives a portion of the time with the mother and a portion of the time with the father. This is granted if the court is convinced that both parents are able to care for the child when the child is residing with him/her. The active participation of both parents in the child’s life is now considered to be in the best interest of the child.

•    Sole custody is granted if the court is convinced that only one parent is able to care for the child. The other parent may retain partial custody rights as allowed by the court.

•    Primary physical custody is when the child resides primarily with one parent only, and the other parent has partial physical custody.

•    Bird’s Nest custody is when the child resides full-time in the family home, and the parents take turns living in the home and caring for the child.

3.    Factors Considered by the Court

You may wonder what factors the court may consider when awarding physical custody.  The court may deny any physical custody if you cannot provide a safe home, if there is evidence you have abused the child, if the you abuse drugs or alcohol, or if you have been absent from the child’s life for an appreciable amount of time.

It’s important to reach out to Perna & Abracht LLC for consultation on a child custody case, as well as related issues such as child support.

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Can You Afford the Cost of Divorce? What to Expect

Most divorces are a complex process that require legal filings, the services of professionals, and sometimes, a trial. All of these factors contribute to the cost of divorce.

There is no “cookie cutter” price tag on divorce, as each one is as unique as the individual parties filing for divorce. However, the national average cost for a divorce is approximately $15,000 a person. This cost includes legal fees (even for an affordable divorce attorney), court costs, and fees for other professionals to consult on taxes or child custody, or to appraise real estate.

Because much of the cost is due to fees, the time it takes to complete the divorce will affect the final cost. The average divorce takes four to 11 months, but if you go to trial, it will take longer, and the costs will be higher.

A deeper dive

There are specific factors that will impact the cost of divorce. These include:

1.    Whether the divorce is contested or uncontested

2.    The fee arrangement with your divorce attorney

3.    The state and location in which you file for divorce

4.    Your child custody and child support arrangement

5.    Whether either party seeks alimony

6.    Whether the parties would agree to mediation

To put it simply, the more issues that you and your spouse can agree upon, the less time it will take to complete the divorce, and the less expensive it will be. Even when the divorce is “amicable” (and few are truly so), there will be costs to both parties.

An uncontested divorce will cost less than a contested divorce because fewer professionals and experts are needed to be called-in to settle any disagreements in valuation or dollar amounts. To file an uncontested divorce, you ultimately will need to be in agreement with your spouse on all major issues. When an uncontested divorce decree is final (usually after a mandatory waiting period), there is no “wiggle room” to go back and renegotiate the agreement.

It’s unusual for any couple with marital assets to be in complete agreement on the value of the property or how it should be fairly divided. A good spousal support attorney will bring in any appraisers or other professionals as needed, and then negotiate a settlement. If you or your spouse are business owners or have extensive investment properties or holdings, this process will be more complex and take longer.

Mediation

A mediation of divorce may save money, but there are still costs, and it is important not to mediate unless certain parameters are met. Even if mediation is used, each party should have the agreement reached at mediation by a good and experienced divorce attorney. Mediation is when you and your spouse agree to use the services of a professional mediator, who is a neutral third party.

You might choose to have a collaborative divorce, which is when the two parties each hire an attorney, and everyone meets to negotiate the parts of your divorce that are contested. Even with an affordable lawyer, the costs will include legal fees, but you will save the cost of going to trial.

Thinking about divorce but wondering whether you can afford it? Contact the team at Perna & Abracht who will be happy to provide answers to your questions in an initial complimentary consultation.

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