Perna and Abracht is a full service law firm helping clients in the areas of Business law, Family law, Divorce, Personal Injury, Estate Planning and Administration, Workman's Compensation and Real Estate.

Perna and Abracht is a full service law firm helping clients in the areas of Business law, Family law, Divorce, Personal Injury, Estate Planning and Administration, Workman's Compensation and Real Estate.

Perna and Abracht is a full service law firm helping clients in the areas of Business law, Family law, Divorce, Personal Injury, Estate Planning and Administration, Workman's Compensation and Real Estate.

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Saturday, November 23, 2019

Child Custody Rights for Grandparents: What to Expect


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Although it is often assumed that a child custody dispute is between parents, this is not always true. Grandparents may have very close relationships with grandchildren and may seek visitation rights or even custody of a child. Good child custody lawyers will tell you that this is a change in family law, as state laws granting rights to grandparents didn’t occur prior to the 1960s or 1970s.

Grandparents’ rights to visitation and child custody differ from state to state. In Pennsylvania, a family court may give visitation to a grandparent if:

•    One or both parents of the child has died, or

•    The parents have been divorced or separated for more than six months, or

•    The child has resided with the grandparent for more than a year.

When a Pennsylvania family court considers grandparent visitation, it is obligated to consider whether the visits are in the best interest of the child and whether the visits would undermine the parent-child relationship. In adoption, the grandparents’ visitation rights are ended, unless the adoption is to a stepparent or the grandparent.

Visitation Rights of Grandparents

The underlying concept of grandparents’ visitation rights is that the contact between grandparents and grandchildren is good for the children. As long as the parents agree with this, visitation can be arranged informally and no court decision is needed. If a parent objects and does not have a reason considered valid (see below), states have laws that protect the rights of grandparents, and may even extend to other family members (called “third party” or “nonparent” rights).

Federal law requires courts in each state to recognize nonparental visitation orders from family courts in other states. There is one US Supreme Court ruling that asserts the Washington state nonparental visitation portion of the state statute violates parents’ rights to raise their kids.

Family courts are obligated to ask the following questions when determining visitation rights for grandparents:

•    What is the relationship between the child and the grandparent?

•    What is the relationship between the parents and the grandparents?

•    How recently have the child and the grandparent been in contact?

•    How might the visitation affect the relationship between the child and his or her parents? The American Bar Association recently reasserted the rights of children and parents to have family unity.

•    Will grandparent visits negatively impact the child’s time spent with his or her parents?

•    Is there any evidence or history of grandparent abuse or neglect of the child?

Custody Rights of Grandparents

Granting custody to grandparents is less common than visitation, and the laws which govern granting custody to grandparents tend to be less specific. In a few states, the law considers grandparents as custodians if both parents have died. 

How would grandparents gain custody if a parent is alive and objects to the grandparents’ custody? The grandparents must prove to a family court that the parent is unfit and the child or children would have a better life with them. Good child support lawyers will tell you this cannot be a simple matter of economics (i.e., the grandparent is wealthy and the parent is not), but more of a safety concern for the child such as parental abuse of alcohol or drugs, or parental abuse or neglect of the child.

You may learn more about grandparents’ rights to visitation and custody by sitting down with an experienced family law attorney.

5 Things You Must Do to Prepare for a Contested Divorce


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Divorce is never easy to go through, but when you know it will be contested, you should take particular actions to protect yourself and to help your divorce lawyer. If prepared in the following way, you will have made an important contribution to a favorable outcome.

1.    Collect your financial documents

Even before your first divorce attorney consultation, collect three years’ worth of tax returns and a recent pay stub for you and your spouse. If you do not have these records on file, you can obtain copies of tax returns by filling out this IRS form: https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f4506t.pdf. The Social Security Administration can show you your income history: https://www.socialsecurity.gov/mystatement/. This information will be considered when determining support obligations.

2.    Learn about your assets

In a number of marriages, one partner takes the lead on financial matters, and this likely includes knowing about all the jointly-owned assets. If you are this partner, then you will have an easier time putting together the information your divorce attorney will need to protect your interests, such as:

•    Bank accounts and current balances

•    Mortgage payment amount and current balance

•    Investments, retirement accounts, and life insurance policies

•    Deeds and titles to any paid-off property

If you have not been handling these matters, it is time to educate yourself. Find out where this information is stored, then begin to copy statements going back 12 months if you can find them. You may have to play detective in the home office or wherever the records may be.

3.    Collect information about all the debt

You may have to do some sleuthing to find the records that pertain to marital debt. Look for and copy:

•    Loan amounts, including auto and personal debt, and current balances

•    Credit card statements and current balances

Obtain your personal credit report and share it with your attorney. This does not reveal your spouse’s credit history or any debt that exists only in the spouse’s name, but it does give your attorney a snapshot of what may come to light in a contested divorce.

4.    Stay organized

It’s best to keep copies for yourself of all the documents pertaining to income, assets, and debt. Also, make a list of jobs held and degrees attained during the marriage, and in what years they occurred. Place all of this in a binder or folder that you keep in a safe, private place. If your attorney has a question, you can find the answers quickly. 

5.    Create a custody journal

If the divorce is contested, it’s likely that custody of minor children will be dragged into it. These are very emotional discussions, so you need to have facts to share with your child custody attorney. Write down the parenting tasks and activities you are handling and those your spouse is handling. Record if your spouse is prompt when picking up or dropping off children. Make notes of any concerns you have about the safety of your children or situations they may be exposed to. Always place dates on your journal entries.

Protect your interests by involving an experienced Perna & Abracht LLC divorce attorney as early as possible in the divorce process.

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